weekend update

It happened in the front of the kids' school.

 I was there taking Ana her crutches she got for Christmas. (Yes, we gave our daughter crutches for Christmas. She loves them.) Her friend had hurt her ankle and Ana really wanted to let her friend borrow them. Ana called from the school and said that her friend was having a hard time walking and that it was okay with her teacher and everyone if she used the crutches. I told her "no" at first. I had a whole list of things I needed/wanted to do. But then I thought about how grateful I am for Ana's generous spirit and her thoughtfulness of her friend and how much I want to encourage that kind of behavior. And I thought about my New Year's Theme and how as part of "saying less" I want to really think before reacting and how I had not done that. So after questioning my parenting for a good 30 minutes, I decided to take her the crutches.

And then I wrecked my car.  I slid into the curb of the drop of lane and totally messed up the front wheel. It was undriveable. So I called my trusty insurance and a tow truck came and while they were pulling the van onto the truck it pulled the bumper off the front end. Not completely off, I guess, but enough that it looks really bad. We are now awaiting word from the shop what the verdict will be.

Sigh. In the words of my sister. "No good deed goes unpunished." Ha!

Saturday I went to the Temple and it was so grounding and peaceful. Then I spent the afternoon with my sister and some of her kids and we had a lovely time. And Dave had the whole weekend off (including today!) so that's been great.

Life sure is messy. We keep on trucking along.